February is known as the month of love, with Valentine’s Day bringing an extra dose of romance. But for actor Milind Soman and his athlete wife, Ankita Konwar, high energy and excitement are a regular part of life, thanks to their athletic background. Interestingly, their love story began with a shared passion for running, yet their idea of love is simple and sweet.
“For me, Valentine’s Day is any day I spend with Milind,” says Ankita with a smile. Milind, on the other hand, believes, “This day exists because people often forget to show love on other days. But for us, we try to do special things for each other all the time.”
The couple has been together for 10 years, including seven years of marriage, and Milind couldn’t be happier. “I’ve never been with anyone for this long before,” he jokes. Ankita, on the other hand, had once given up on love. “I thought I’d never find someone who truly understood me. I had accepted that I would probably spend my life alone,” she recalls.
Then, she met Milind. “I was surprised to find someone who thought like me, someone who didn’t mind walking barefoot into a fancy restaurant, loved nature, and truly understood himself. That’s what kept our connection strong,” she shares. Even after a decade, Milind is still amazed by her. “She understands me and that is special. She’s always excited about life, loves trying new things, and takes such good care of our relationship,” he says.
One of the most talked-about aspects of their relationship is their age gap, but the couple sees it as a blessing. “Ankita is 26 years younger than me, so we think differently and come from very different backgrounds. She is from Assam, and I am from Maharashtra. Our languages, food, and upbringing are completely different. Yet, we have found a way to blend our thoughts, emotions, and spirits. Because of her, my life has only gotten better,” Milind explains.
Ankita agrees and adds, “When you’re young, you think there’s a lot of time for everything. But being with someone older makes you appreciate each moment. I now see life with gratitude.”
The couple also shares their advice for a happy relationship in today’s fast-paced world. Milind believes, “You should understand what your partner wants in life. Even if they are unsure, be with them on their journey and support them no matter what.” Ankita adds, “A relationship should have space to grow. The person you love may change over time, but you have to keep falling in love with them over and over again.”
